Insulting a straight guy by saying "That's because you're gay." is fine. But insulting a gay guy by saying "That's because you're gay." is below the belt.
The difference is, it is insulting to be told that you are who you are not. But most times, straight guys should just take gay jokes lightly and shrug it off.
What's the big deal anyway? You are told that you bought slippers when you bought shoes. YOU KNOW you bought shoes. So, what's the big deal?
When you insult a gay guy by saying "That's because you're gay." You ridicule who he is. He IS gay, and you're insulting him for being who he is.
Like telling you that you're inferior because you're crippled when you're not won't matter. But telling a crippled guy that he is inferior because he is crippled is wrong in so many ways.
Now, insulting a straight guy, when you assume that he is gay by saying "That's because you're gay." just shows that you are stupid.
Because being gay does not make one less of a person - neither is being asian or black, being differently-abled, being small, being fat or being poor.
But, please, people. Being stupid does.
Posted by IE Sindayen on http://yunlangnaman.blogspot.com/Sunday, April 8, 2012
The difference is, it is insulting to be told that you are who you are not. But most times, straight guys should just take gay jokes lightly and shrug it off.
What's the big deal anyway? You are told that you bought slippers when you bought shoes. YOU KNOW you bought shoes. So, what's the big deal?
When you insult a gay guy by saying "That's because you're gay." You ridicule who he is. He IS gay, and you're insulting him for being who he is.
Like telling you that you're inferior because you're crippled when you're not won't matter. But telling a crippled guy that he is inferior because he is crippled is wrong in so many ways.
Now, insulting a straight guy, when you assume that he is gay by saying "That's because you're gay." just shows that you are stupid.
Because being gay does not make one less of a person - neither is being asian or black, being differently-abled, being small, being fat or being poor.
But, please, people. Being stupid does.
Posted by IE Sindayen on http://yunlangnaman.blogspot.com/Sunday, April 8, 2012
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