To the irresponsible parent, from lessons of Determinism

You, as parents, had more than a decade to influence your child to love you. You had control of your child's formative years to shape who your child becomes in adulthood.

Now, when the child became an adult, that adult refuses to cherish you. And you blame that adult for being of less virtue than you wish of the child?

Yeah. Fuck you. I don't think so.